How We Can Help
You may be asking: “What exactly can Priya & Bob do to help? I’ve/we’ve tried lots of different things to get closer, and nothing seems to improve."
To answer that, we want to start by telling you what we believe. We think it’s important for you to know that about us.
What We Believe
- Loving sex needs intimacy.
- Good communication is fundamental.
- Loving yourself is vital.
- Honouring each other creates deep and special connection.
- Respecting boundaries is essential - both your own and others.
- Generally men (and sometimes women) see sex as a way to intimacy.
- Generally women (and sometimes men) see intimacy as a way to sex.
- Both men and women want to feel more comfortable with their bodies and their sexuality.
What We Do
- We teach you, gently and sensitively, how to be more intimate and loving.
- We provide down-to-earth practical support with a Tantric perspective.
- We create an environment in which you can safely experience the elements of good relationships, not just learn about them intellectually.
- We do all of this with understanding, compassion, integrity, and love.
- Our approach to helping people have loving relationships is successful because it brings together the essential ingredients of Love, Intimacy and Sexuality.
These are separate and yet interwoven with each other. It may be useful to take a look at each one
~ Love ~
Love, love, love… the subject of many songs and generally the thing we want most. However, do you love YOU? If you think about it, doesn’t it seem strange to expect someone to love you if you don’t love yourself?
Sounds basic perhaps, but you do need to love yourself first. After all, you are your own, forever life partner.
We can help you feel more centred and in love with yourself, so you can reach out to give and receive love.
~ Intimacy ~
Intimacy is the ingredient you may find the hardest to define, yet this is what brings it all together. Intimacy is a beautiful combination of understanding, compassion, honouring, gentleness, honesty, and so much more. You know intuitively when real intimacy is present. Even so, it’s not easy to make happen.
We help you feel confident about being intimate with others. We teach you the tools of intimacy: listening , sharing your truth, opening your heart, clarifying your boundaries and more. You will find that you can be close, loving and connected. From this, trust can build and open the door to deep, loving and intimate sex.
~ Sexuality ~
Most of us think we know what “sex” is. At its best it’s a wonderful mix of physical pleasure, deep emotional connection, playfulness, and an integration of love, intimacy, heart and spirit. When these qualities are present, magic can happen.
You may know that magic well and still you may know anguish and pain also.
We help you to overcome hang-ups, barriers, inhibitions, lack of understanding and self-doubt. Free from these troubles, you can discover sex that is loving, satisfying and healing.
Love, Intimacy, Sexuality - What It All Means
If you focus on only one or two of these three ingredients, your relationships feel unsatisfying. You know because you’ve been there.
But when you have all three, your relationships are deeper, more fulfilling - and more fun!
We teach you to bring this all together in a practical and heartfelt way. Our approach teaches you the skills to build on in your daily life, whether you are in relationship now or want to be soon.
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"How Avoiding Sex Creates a More Loving and Satisfying Sex Life"
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